Women hire me to attract high quality men from the inside-out💘
This could be you in 6 months or less
So, I heard you’re single, smart & successful but when it comes to love—things feel hard..
Likely because..
You consistently date ‘the wrong guys’ aka the emotionally unavailable, noncommittal men
You find yourself in relationships that feel one-side and like you are constantly chasing him..
You fantasize, obsess or overthink the men you’re dating or the men in your past
Your heart drops & your mind spirals when you keep having men ‘leave’ after 3 dates or 3 months of dating
You try to fix or change men by ‘being there for them;’ finding yourself working overtime
You lower your standards so men don’t leave you
You feel betrayed by men and like you can’t fully trust them or relationships
You feel this empty void inside you even though you love other parts of your life
You wish to be chosen and cherished by a man
You find yourself in situationships because you worry that you’re being too needy, too difficult or too much
You pretend to be okay with things (even though you aren’t) so you don’t lose the men you’re getting to know
You spend your time anxiously trying to secure commitment due to premature emotional attachment
You knowingly and unknowingly dismiss the red flags
You find yourself dating for potential
You secretly dream of being saved or rescued by men
You grew up in a family that doesn’t talk about their feelings
You pretend to be ‘chill’ and easy going
You ‘feel bad’ when you try to set boundaries and worry about men’s feelings over your own
You struggle asking for help or what you want/need in love or relationships
The truth is: your relationships are a mirror🪞
Upgrade who are being—to shift who you attract
Hey girl, I’m Cynthia!
I’m your relationship psychotherapist & coach that’s so passionate about helping women attract love with emotionally available, high quality men. I’ve spent the last 12 years learning & applying my extensive knowledge of psychology, spirituality & relationships to heal & guide not only my clients, but myself.
You see, I’m no different than you. I’ve had my fair share of unsettling relationship experiences:
✔️chasing emotionally unavailable men
✔️settling for breadcrumbs
✔️push-pull situationships
✔️spiraling after being ghosted
✔️a toxic trauma bond
But today, I’ve healed & released my past. I am oozing in high self-worth & feel so confident in my dating & relationship life. This is why I created my signature 1:1 offer: Upgrade Your Love Blueprint.
Upgrade Your Love Blueprint 💌
in 6 months or less using my 3 step attraction process
In step one, you’ll uncover the relationship patterns holding you back in love. You’ll revisit your past (even your childhood) to explore common themes, thoughts, & behaviors that sabotage your relationships life.
In step two, you rewire your brain for healthy love. I use evidence-based healing modalities to dissolve your current love blocks. In this stage you’ll let go of the past trauma, heartbreak, & fear that’s blocking you from attracting your dream man.
In step three, you’ll align to the upgraded version of yourself that easily attracts emotionally available men.
Perhaps you have already tried…
Traditional talk therapy.. which helps you cope, vent and feel better for a bit but it’s not giving a love life transformation
Swiping on the dating apps..but noticing matches that seem uninteresting and not like a good fit
Playing it cool and being easy-going.. which ends up making you feel depleted, used and still not having the commitment you want
Trying to get men to change or make things ‘work’.. but you still feel confused and annoyed why men don’t show up how you want them to
Listening to your favorite Tarot Card reader.. who gives you hope that he’ll come back or love will work out but it doesn’t seem to happen they say it will
Practicing detachment.. but you feel like you’re pretending to be unbothered vs actually being that way
Watching YouTube videos on “Why he pulled away..” which just keeps making you spiral
..the truth is that trying these things are surface level work. Which is why I created my 3-step attraction process that goes deep 🤯
This work helps your scared, inner girl crawl out of her curled up ball and approach love as a soft, feminine & confident woman.💘
Your love life after upgrading your love blueprint..
✔️ You hear your phone ping with a text by your emotionally available, husband material-boyfriend setting up a dinner reservations for Friday at 8
✔️ You say ‘no’ to casual or last minute ‘dates’ because you are looking for real deal effort & know that its out there
✔️ You feel confident & secure in attracting high quality men
✔️ You confidently set boundaries and embody your standards
✔️ You date men who can physically & emotionally hold all of you
✔️ You have a high sense of self worth & feeling oh so deserving of the love you want
✔️ You’re able to lay back and settle into your feminine energy when dating or in relationships
✔️ You’re able to trust yourself & trust the process of the Universe
✔️ You’re comfortable feeling & expressing your raw emotions on your own or with others
✔️You’re happily being pursued & courted in dating & relationships
✔️ You’re feeling fully nourished by yourself & life that having a man by your side is just the cherry on top 🍒
✔️ You feel safe opening up your heart to deep intimacy & bonding
✔️ You feel worthy of being chosen while also doing the choosing
✔️You’re comfortable speaking up for what you want or need in a partnership
✔️You feel comfortable receiving support, help & being taken care of
✔️You prioritize your self pleasure & self care knowing you’re your best self
✔️You allow yourself to be loved, worshiped & cherished😏 as opposed to chasing & doing all the work❌
✔️You’re able to discern who is right or wrong for you
✔️You’re able to gracefully ebb & flow in the early stages of dating
✔️You’re able to self reflect where you’re at and what you need
“Confidence is not ‘Will they like me?’ Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine, even if they don’t.”
Christina Grimmie
Common Love Blocks
Common Love Blocks
Abandonment Wounds
Rejection Wounds
Childhood Wounds
Unresolved Breakups
Relationship Trauma
Toxic & One-sided Relationships
Anxious Attachment Style
Avoidant Attachment Style
Disorganized Attachment Style
People Pleasing
Codependency
Self Abandonment
Low Self Worth/Self Esteem
Fear of Being Alone
Father & Mother Wounds