Hi, I’m Cynthia 💗
I’m the one you hire to start attracting healthy relationships with high quality men. I imagine you’re on my page because you’re ready to:
✅ attract love with high quality men
✅ stick to your standards in dating
✅ feel worthy, lovable & deserving
✅ filter out the wrong guys
✅ feel confident & secure in your love life
✅ feel safe & cozy in your feminine
Dating Psychotherapist & Coach
Imagine always feeling chosen & cherished.👩❤️👨 Feeling safe to express yourself and what you need.🥰 Being spoiled & worshipped.😉 Having hope & faith in your love life. ✨💕💋
MY BACKGROUND
I’ve helped 100s of women in psychotherapeutic & coaching settings meet their mental health, self-esteem & relationship goals. I’ve truly witnessed the magic that happens when you heal from your past, deprogram your conditioning & step into your most secure and confident self.
The love that you attract & the life that you create will be so irresistible & juicy. I want this for all women. This is the work we do in my world.
My world abides by the following principles:
✅all women deserve happy, healthy & wealthy relationships with emotionally available, high quality men
✅all women deserve to heal past trauma and experience loving, safe & secure partnerships
✅all women deserve to feel comfortable & connected to their bodies, intuition & sense of self
✅all women deserve to feel fully nourished & cared for
✅all women deserve to experience magnetism & attract what it is they desire
✅all women deserve to experience a world of abundance— you’re the one who has the man, the career, the money, the family, the passions and the life💯
Early in my career, I have worked in several clinical settings including hospitals, mental health agencies, prisons & state departments. I’ve spent the past 7 years working as a trauma-informed psychotherapist helping women & children heal from attachment trauma to improve their relationships. I was also a mental health program coordinator for two years providing supervision, training & program management.
I started providing specialized treatment on my own when I opened my first psychotherapy private practice in 2021. I continued to get trained in evidence-based psychology, coaching, relationships, attachment, dating, spirituality, trauma healing & manifestation practices. I incorporated my own wisdom into my work with clients as I practice what I preach.
In 2023, I launched Cynthia’s Confidence Coaching & Counseling, added coaching and started to market & educate to women on social media @confidencewithcyn. In 2024, I created my signature offer: Upgrade Your Love Blueprint which guides women through my 3 step love attraction process.
I’m so happy to cheer you on throughout your journey 💫
Here’s My Story:
It was just a few years ago that I found myself on the merry-go-round of situationships and dating men who are unavailable. I found myself constantly trying to make things work with men and experiencing emotional highs and lows in my dating life. I’d ignore the red flags, obsess over why he pulled away, and listen to my friend’s advice over what I was thinking or feeling. I found myself pushing away the great guys and entertaining the wrong ones. It wasn’t until I was two years into my therapy career, that I started to apply my new clinical knowledge on trauma, healing and relationships to my dating life. And to be honest, it helped. But I knew I had to go deeper—which is why I did. I officially had enough when I was ghosted (yet again) and started a 2 year journey of completely decentering men and healing.
Here’s the changes I made:
I healed my abandonment and rejection wounds using somatic therapies and subconscious reprogramming
I learned to identify my emotions, express myself and communicate in a healthy, feminine way
I studied male psychology and brushed up on my dating and relationship skills
I started to meet all my unmet needs and fully nourish myself to create a happy, abundant life
I embodied chooser energy in love and dating by setting boundaries, upholding my standards & creating a vision for my relationship life
I practiced the art of surrender by choosing faith and trust over control and uncertainty
I revamped my codependency and anxious attachment which allowed me to date from a place of secure attachment & confidence
I learned the art of receiving to attract masculine men who want to provide
I learned to feel safe & secure within myself to start attracting safe & secure men in my outside reality
My Credentials
I received my Bachelor’s in Psychology & Criminology at Fairleigh Dickinson University in 2015 and my Master’s in Clinical Social Work at Rutgers University in 2018 with a Violence Against Women & Children Certification. I earned full clinical licensure in 2020 and became a Certified Life Coach in 2023.
I was trained in EMDR Trauma Therapy in 2020 and became a Certified EMDR Therapist in 2023. I am also trained in somatic EMDR coaching interventions.
I have also been trained in jungian sand tray therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), internal family systems/parts works (IFS), attachment theory, somatic therapies, psychodynamic therapies, & cultural competence.
I’ve spent the last 12 years studying trauma, healing, relationships & attraction..
And here’s what I’ve figured out…
Your current life, relationships and perspectives are a product of your past experiences & conditioning. Women have been conditioned to self-sacrifice, play small, be ‘good,’ and please others since birth. Women have also been taught that their feelings are ‘too much', there’s something ‘wrong with them,’ when single, they’re ‘high maintenance’ when expecting a fair standard of care and that they must do it all to have it all.
Well, you’ve been lied to. This is how they keep us powerless. In my world, women break free from these psychological prisons to expand their capacity for receiving joy, care, purpose & love. This helps you effortless attract what it is that you deserve & desire. The magic starts the day you decide. ✨
Are you ready to step into your feminine power?